Brisk Wind not Warm Breeze
Break of Dawn not Darkness of Dusk
Long Walk not Fancy Wheels
Uplifting Melody not Syrupy Love Song
Companionable Silence not Constant Chatter
Finger Food Platter not French Cuisine
Open Sky not Suffocating Spaces
Exploring Places not Candlelit Dinner
Loud Laughter not Forced Humor
Spontaneity not Calculated Moves
Quality of Time not Quantity of Time
Entwined Fingers not Groping Hands
The Kid in Him not The Macho Male
Creating Exhilarating Moments not Anticipating Sensual Moments
Genuine Words not Deceptive Promises
Shy Glances not Incessant Staring
Goofy not Grave
Genial, Never-ending Conversations not Frigid, Formal Talks
Lingering Contentment not Lingering Regrets
Dialect of Heart 
this is officially my favourite post i\’ve ever read on any blog – ever:)cool. very cool
Thanks Aoife! That\’s the best compliment I\’ve ever received since I started blogging. Thanks again! š
well said! Thanks for coming by my blog.
Wow… As I read those lines… I had forgotten what they were about… it was still a beautiful experience to visualise through your words…certainly a good read for the day…take care and have a nice day mate… cheers…
That\’s really sweet š I can actually relate to you. Even I am searching for that kinda sweet date š
dear QM,you just made my day… what a nice post to read after a long day in the office…my first time here. loved it very very much… you write beautifully… hope to keep coming back for more…Take care and do visit…
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I LIKE french cuisine.. though of course finger food is easier. Nice post. I like guys who can be goofy but tough too. That is super i think š
Awwww.. This is so sweet! And heartfelt too! Love it š
Very pretty. What I find interesting is that there\’s probably just as many girls that would invert your list and call it perfect!
awwwwwwwwwwwwww this brings to mind all the perfect stuff for me i have in my mind.but yea some what mad ways and reasons i\’d say š
hey well said………tht is how the real me or u is meant to b…! I loved it!
@ scatterbrain it\’s always a pleasure reading your blog
@ arv glad you liked reading it@ girl next door hope it materializes for you soon enough :)@little girl lost thanks for dropping by my blog :)@crowscious ya…goofy and tough guys…and sensitive and trustworthy too…do they still make them like that anymore? if yes…i\’m first in line to order one!@ashrita thanks :)@Sebastian I know…Guys pretty much assume majority of girls like the inverse of many things on this list…and they are probably right too I guess in assuming so. I\’ve experienced the conventional perfect date! But I so wish they try to go out of the conventional candlelit dinner etc routine and go on a date that lasts all day long…just walking and talking!very \”before sunrise\” type.@ americanising desi I know there are some mad ways mentioned here! But that\’s how my perfect date would be! š
oh that would be definitely perfect:)loved this space:)
I think men aren\’t all that creative… or rather, we\’re not fans of failing… we certainly don\’t want a girl to be disappointed.So, sadly, we go with societal norms — what we\’ve been taught by the media as \’expected\’ by girls.Some of my best dates have been sitting on a rock, overlooking the sea…
… y'know… i had a date like this mere HOURS after commenting on this post!! it ticked almost ALL the boxes. i couldn't believe it!and yes, i was gushing to my roommate when i came home. and yes, i opened my laptop, showed her this post, and giggled as we totted up the dude's score.but… next morning i realised… well..it's not what i want either.>_< fucking hell! i drive myself nuts.